番外篇:感情解放

メンタル・イデア・ラボの本城ハルです。

良くも悪くも“感情”は、私たちをザワつかせ振り回します。

嬉しい楽しいといったポジティブな感情は解放しやすいのですが、不安やイライラ、妬み、悔しい、怒り、悲しい、孤独というネガティブな感情は、無意識に自身で恐怖や不安という堤防を作るので、解放しにくいと言われています。

解放=(誰かに)ぶつける

ではありません。

そもそも“感情”とは一体何なのでしょうか?

感情は潜在意識(無意識)と深く結びついています。自分の感情を意識し受容していくことは、自分自身を深く知ることにも繋がっていくのです。

厄介なことに潜在意識は抑え込もうとすればするほど反発する性質があります。悲しい時に我慢して泣きもせず、悲しい気持ちから目を逸らしても、いつまでも突き刺すような悲しみがそのままの形で心の底に澱(オリ)のように降り積ります。

私たちは感じたくない、受け入れたくないネガティブな感情をよくないもの、邪魔なものと考え意識の外や横に追いやろうとしたり、何とか抑え込もうとします。先ほど書いたように、感情は抑え込もうとすればするほど反発する性質があります。

感情とは形を持たない“力”であり“エネルギー”です。

見えなくても確かに存在する掴みどころのないもので、数値化も難しく視覚化もできません。それは経過と共に形を変えることもありますし(不安→不信→怒りや孤独など)、人を動かす大きな影響力もあります。以前【感情は感染する?】というコラムでも書きました。

感情は何も他者に向けるだけではありません。上手くいかないことがあると不安になりますし、プレゼン前には緊張もするでしょう。大丈夫だと思っていたのに失敗すると、そんな自分に腹が立つこともあります。

ポジティブな感情も受け入れたくないネガティブな感情も共にエネルギーで、表出しやすい/表出しにくいだけの差です。

言葉にしなくても感情は伝わりますよね。険しい表情をしていれば怒りや不快感だとわかりますし、ニコニコしていれば「いいことでもあったのかな」とわかります。

そう、感情はあなたがあなた自身を知るため、他者があなたを知るための大切なノンバーバルコミュニケーションでもあるのです。

ネガティブな感情にフタをせず、ありのままを受容していくのは怖くもあり不安でもあるものです。その恐怖から感情に抗ったり見て見ぬフリをしたり、何とか収まらないかと気を紛らわせてみたり・・・。

マインドフルネス、聞いたことがあると思います。『今ここ』に意識を集中し、あらゆることを感じ、ありのままを受け入れていく一つのストレスマネジメント方法です。

いつも口だけで有言不実行な同僚にイライラする→自分は今とてもイライラしている、を意識します(イライラの原因を追求するのではありません)。→ただただ「ああ、自分は今とてもイライラしているんだな」と自身の感情に向き合い、感情を把握するだけです。

それが“あるがまま”です。

「イライラしちゃいけない」と自分の感情を否定することも、「イライラするのは自分の心が狭くて余裕がないからだ」と分析してもいけません。

受容するというのは、そもそも“受容する”ことがどういうことかを知らなくてはできません。

どんな感情もジャッジせず、目も背けず、そのままの状態で取り出すイメージです。

今、怒っている。今、嬉しいと感じている。今、妬んでいる。今、悲しい気持ち・・・

自分を知るために、感情に振り回されないために感情を解放する練習をしてみると、少しだけ自分がラクになります。

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